Hayley Graham

Therapist and author

An author, child and adolescent psychotherapist, and late-identified autistic. I bring together the power of stories and the depth of therapy to create spaces where people feel seen, understood, and supported.

Here, you’ll find books that spark empathy and open conversations, alongside psychotherapy services offering compassion, insight, and practical tools for life’s challenges. This is where words and healing meet.

Hayley Graham

Therapist and author

Explore the intersection of storytelling and therapy. Here, you’ll find enriching children’s books alongside supportive psychotherapy services designed to nurture growth and healing.

About me

I’m an autistic psychotherapist, author, and founder of a children’s mental health charity based in Devon. For nearly two decades, I’ve worked with children, young people, and adults in both educational and private practice settings, supporting them through complex emotional challenges with care and compassion. I have special interest in working with and supporting Autistic people of all ages.

I’m registered and accredited by the UKCP as a specialist child and adolescent psychotherapist, a registered and accredited member of the BACP, and a trained EMDR therapist. While I’ve paused my clinical practice for now, I plan to return in 2026 with a renewed focus on EMDR and adult work.

As a late-diagnosed Autistic woman and mother of neurodivergent sons, I’m passionate about creating spaces where neurodivergent lives are understood, respected, and celebrated. Autism advocacy is not just part of my work — it’s woven into who I am.

My first book, Shadow Monsters and Courageous Hearts, is a collection of therapeutic animal stories that has been widely used by therapists, teachers, and parents to support children in talking about mental health.

My latest novel, Other Wise Hearts, is a contemporary fantasy inspired by the lived experiences of late-identified Autistic people — a tale of hidden strength, self-discovery, and the quiet magic of being exactly who you are.

Originally from Wales, I’ve called Devon home for the past 35 years. I live with my husband and our two dogs, Charlie and Nell.

Why we need to talk
about Mental Health

Talking about mental health has never been more critical than it is right now – not only our mental health, but our children’s, and that of our neighbours, friends and broader communities.

Recent research by NHS Digital and The Office of National Statistics shows that mental health difficulties in children and young people rose from one in nine in 2017 to one in six by 2020.

Self-harm and thoughts of suicide were also shown to be on the increase. With one in four of us experiencing problems with our mental health in any given year, there’s a high chance that we, or someone we know, will be affected.

Talking does more than share information. It helps us organise our thoughts, solves problems, reduces stress, brings relief, settles emotions and increases self-esteem. It can grow empathy and build self-compassion. In short, talking can bring about change. It can also prevent tragedies.  For me, most importantly, talking can help us form, build and repair relationships.

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